Originally Posted by Jellybeans
Why does she need the paperwork to file? Usually only the party filing divorce needs to file the paper work and have the other party served.
She doesn't have to. I am still hoping to put this dying horse down quickly and peacefully. IF we can agree on everything, we can both file the papers with the court and be done in 4 months for under $300. That is why I printed a copy for her to complete as she thinks and one for me to complete as I think. Then, we will get together and see if we can iron out the differences.