Originally Posted by flowergirl77
After sending that mssg to XOM, my husband called me from his office spitting mad, he found out that I called XOM (due to an anonymous Facebook message that said: "spoke with your wife she wants to meet up") I never found out who actually sent this message-it was either XOM or the one friend I told about this communication, and she denies it was her. To this day I don't want to believe it was him retaliating because I changed my mind, but I will never know for sure... so we had yet another DDay experience. My H raged and carried on and it was only a 5 minute call!
Are you surprised
? You betrayed him... again.
Get into therapy to help you deal with the fallout from EA. Stop pining for someone who it's over and finito over with. You need to either focus on your marriage or get a divorce so your husband can be with someone who is true to him.