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psu02 · 02-17-2009, 09:03 PM

I'm kind of on the other side, being the female and the verbal abuse. I couldn't approach my husband without him yelling at me and telling me I'm ridiculous for saying such things or that I'm so mean and finally him saying "I'm done!" when I've barely said anything.

With that said, I don't think your feelings are stupid. I've been married for almost 5 years and been together for 9. We don't have a kid but have been trying until now. My head is in the same place....do I stay? Do I cut my losses? Yes, I'd have to start over but I'm not actually afraid to do that, but do I want to just leave?

Have you tried counseling? I'm considering this, although I suggested it before (years ago), he just now wants to try. How much is too much, right?

02-17-2009, 09:03 PM	#5 (permalink)
psu02 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 6	Re: At a crossroad..... I'm kind of on the other side, being the female and the verbal abuse. I couldn't approach my husband without him yelling at me and telling me I'm ridiculous for saying such things or that I'm so mean and finally him saying "I'm done!" when I've barely said anything. With that said, I don't think your feelings are stupid. I've been married for almost 5 years and been together for 9. We don't have a kid but have been trying until now. My head is in the same place....do I stay? Do I cut my losses? Yes, I'd have to start over but I'm not actually afraid to do that, but do I want to just leave? Have you tried counseling? I'm considering this, although I suggested it before (years ago), he just now wants to try. How much is too much, right?