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outkast44 · 02-18-2009, 01:47 PM

We've been going to counseling for almost 6 months. It's helping with the smaller issues. I'm having a hard time dealing with her depression this time around though. She's very negative and down. Not to sound cold, but i've been through this with her many times. She waits till it gets to this point to get help. Why must she fight it so much as far as getting help. She has to see what it's doing to me. She gets depressed and upset and i become the punching bag. I'm so very tired of being beat up.....and i mean verbally. Her other avenue is to beat herself up and then get me to console her. It's not worked in a while though. im just tired.

02-18-2009, 01:47 PM	#6 (permalink)
outkast44 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 25	Re: At a crossroad..... We've been going to counseling for almost 6 months. It's helping with the smaller issues. I'm having a hard time dealing with her depression this time around though. She's very negative and down. Not to sound cold, but i've been through this with her many times. She waits till it gets to this point to get help. Why must she fight it so much as far as getting help. She has to see what it's doing to me. She gets depressed and upset and i become the punching bag. I'm so very tired of being beat up.....and i mean verbally. Her other avenue is to beat herself up and then get me to console her. It's not worked in a while though. im just tired.