Re: I'm running blind
"Our biggest problem is communication. She can do it and I'm not allowed to. For instance, if something is on her mind, she says it. If something is on my mind, I can't just say it for repercussions of her giving me 10 reasons why I'm wrong."
DPM...
I hear you loud and clear on this one....I tried to find away to communicate my thoughts with my wife...it always ended the same...me having to hear her but the moment I spoke she would blow it off and say I was wrong or shift blame and so on...
Its tough when things get there....
As far as the house goes....she probably didn't expect you to want to stay...Thats a personal call that only you.... can really know the answer too...If you are good going to your bro's that maybe good, you can have support and be close to people that really care for you...
With that being said though...If she wants out... she should leave...
The easier thing to do would be work 100% on the marriage not leave...The grass is not greener.
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