Danielle2011

I have let him control me the majority of our relationship and have done alot of things I really haven't wanted to, but im by his family, his friends, and didn't branch out as much as I should have when I moved out here. I've been trying so hard to be the good wife I let alot of little things go and fed into his selfish ways, which I take full responsibility there lol. Hes not a bad person though and has admitted to being controlling and selfish. He has also said that if we don't work out that hes not going to rush into another relationship just to have children and by that time he will be too old and he thinks he will have been a complete failure and cant imagine life without me. (i see it as more excuses and "poor me") To add fuel to the whole kid fire...... within the first month I moved out here I got knocked up by him. He pulled the "what are you going to do?" card. I said abortion is something I would never do, that I wouldn't be that person, but for many reasons-the biggest not having his full support and having a father that really didn't want the child, I got the abortion : ( ...and 8 years later, here I am. It sucks.