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Old 09-07-2011, 12:52 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Default Re: confronting the other woman in an EA

Oh wow. YOu left out a major part of the equation.

If he wants to separate, there is nothing you can do but concede. If he were truly committed to you, whether you left to stay with your mom or not, he would still be trying to work it out, respect the fact that you don't liek this other woman involved in your marriage, and cut all ties with her.

Now is NOT the timet o chase after him. Be calm and confident. Tell him if he wants to separate that you are sorry that he feels that way but you will not stand in his way.

Do 180s.
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