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Originally Posted by realistic  My point of view: he didn't call much while he was gone, he extended his stay from 1 wk to 2 wks ( which he explained)" |
What was the explanation?
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Originally Posted by realistic So I was curious one night after he went to bed and read his texts. The first one said from woman "I will do it with her because she is my friend and she is hot". One from him said "got condoms, are you ready to go again?", one thanked him for giving him lisa's number, on from the woman said, " That was a wild night last night, do you want to go again?". Then of course, there was his "You are a beautiful sexy woman and you turn me on" |
Wow. One, I don't think being hot has a correlation to singing karaoke. Two, are these in sequential order? I know it may be hard to remember, but if you had the dates and times for each text available, you would be able to put together a better picture. If the last one you listed came before the wild night, then got condoms, then will do it with her, it paints a totally different picture than the order you listed them.
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Originally Posted by realistic I confronted him immediately after reading the texts. He told me nothing about any of it til then. . |
That is not a good sign.
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Originally Posted by realistic Oh yeah, halfway thru his trip, he dropped his phone in pool and i didn't work. Well, it started working a few days after he got back and that when i read the texts. |
Again, do you have the date and time of the texts? Maybe check the phone log or the phone bill. Was it really not working or did he just tell you it was not working during that time to keep from getting interrupted?
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Originally Posted by realistic the husband of the other woman was supposedly out with the whole group and the woman wanted to leave early and just rode back to the hotel with my husband and other guy. Most of the group stayed at same hotel. The were supposedly going to all meet back up at the bachelors hotel bar to hang out and that was what the condoms were for. They decorated the lights at the bar. |
Suppose I'm out with my wife at a bar with several other folks drinking and partying. She wants to leave early and wants to ride back to the hotel with 2 dudes. Well, I'm thinking I would be the one taking her back to the hotel. That one sounds off, as well.
I hate to say it, but it sounds like there was much more going on than he is saying. I'd go back and check old phone logs to see if there is a pattern of calling either one of these women. It may have been going on for a while.
