Re: Masturbating instead of sex?
I have to be the one to disagree to an extent!
Have you "coached" him on how to initate sex? Some guys really don't know what to do. Plus he may think that you are so good at intiating it that he doesn't have to. Or simply he doesn't know how. I say talk to him more about it and don't get so upset. Sex is important but not everything. Doesn't sound major to me. I do understand the frustration, cause I deal with it too, except my husband initates sex and sometimes I don't want it, it frustrates him, but we don't get mad. Its about figuring each other out....part of a marriage. Give the guy a break. If he doesnt do it all the time then I say no worries...
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