Re: The issue of trust....rebuilding trust
I was in the same situation, minus the length of the relationship and the kids part...my then bf and I had just gotten an apartment. I paid money for it with my student loans. Well one day at school I was watching his computer for him while he got something to eat. He had his messenger up and I wanted to introduce myself to his friends. One girl popped up and said "I didn't know Bobby had a gf". I was hurt and shocked. I checked his previous messages and he told girls that "he was dating someone but it wasn't working out and would prolly end soon". WE HAD JUST MOVED IN TOGETHER!!! I forgave him but the trust broke, after a few more months I broke up with him...because he kept doing it. It hurts but 2 years later I am happily married for over a year now and couldnt be better. I hope your situation gets worked out and you have a happy ending too...think about the kids...
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