Re: Couples Quick Assessment Checklist: How Strong is Your Relationship Foundation?
Great Survey...
Relationship Logistics
____x__ We communicate well.
____x__ We resolve conflict well.
____x__ We have discussed and are okay with our relationship roles.
____x__ We have discussed and are okay with our sexual expectations.
____x__ We have discussed and are okay with our spiritual beliefs.
____x__ We have discussed and are okay with our financial management.
____x__ We have discussed and are okay with our personal, couple and family goals.
Relationship Balance
____x__ We value each others needs for some independence within the relationship.
____x__ We spend adequate time together, nurturing our relationship.
Relationship Emotional Safety
____x__ We feel heard by each other.
___x___ We feel understood by each other.
___x___ We feel validated by each other.
____x__ We feel empathy from each other.
____x__ We feel respected by each other.
_____x_ We feel loved by each other.
and thats in all honesty
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