| | Re: Wife and Male Coworker
An emotional affair can be just as damaging as a physical one. In short the wondering spouse is using someone outside the marriage as an emotional center. This can lead on a full PA but not necessarily so. I some cases the two may never even meet in real life. Her locking down her phone and emails only adds to the secrecy and depth in which she is involved with this man. Her “get over it” attitude only underscores he lack of concern with your feelings. She may or may not be aware that she has feelings for this man that a married woman should not have. Has she withdrawn from the marriage of late? Are there other flags you have missed? This relationship is damaging to your marriage and needs to be addressed. I would seriously consider counseling.
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