| | Re: Wife said she loves me very much, but doesn't feel she is in love with me...
New job...likely met a man who she at LEAST has thoughts about...which led to the greener pastures.
She gave you the ILYBINILWY speech, which ALMOST ALWAYS is because of another man. Look it up. And start checking the phone records for one single number that shows up a lot.
That said, you can do a lot to improve your marriage. For one, you should be spending 10-15 hours a week together WITHOUT the kids/work/household stuff. You need to do SOMETHING about the two jobs not overlapping. That's the kiss of death to your marriage.
Finally, stop being the super-pleaser. Women need their men to be strong. Alphas.