Originally Posted by brokenmilguyAZ
Eli i really appreciate the info. well about the OM. she told him when she found out she was pregnant and had several pregnancy tests and a docs visit. she told me the same day she told him "supposedly". he told her to get an abortion and he also doesnt have a pot to piss in or window to throw it out of. he left town and "supposedly" she hasnt heard a word from him. she went to his home to tell him that he has runined her marriage and her family. among other things for all i know but he wasnt there. Military members shouldnt have to go through this **** and the story holds true. if the military wanted you to have a wife they would have issued her to you. guess JODY got another one. thanks for the help
There are AWESOME military wives out here! Those of us that are dedicated and willing to sacrifice ....don't lose hope. She was not the one, but that doesn't mean that there is not one out there. Hang in there. Have you heard about the free counseling services from militaryonesource.com? It is an alternative from the chaplain just in case you would like another perspective.
Tricare also has online chats with services and you can access it from downrange on the website.