Originally Posted by 1-12-t1
would you want to know the aspects of your wife that you wouldnt like? Like one night i got to ask the things i was afraid to hear from my girlfriend. I knew she didnt have good morals and the conversation confirmed it. I ended up leaving her a little bit later. So do you really want to know everything about your wife/girlfriend? or would you rather still be happy and try to make relationship work even tho she may not be as good of a fit as you thought. And im not talkin about xboyfriend stuff but like if she cheated before on other boyfriends, maybe drugs, morals... along those lines.
The solution is to get to know the person before you form an emotional bond. Meet their friends ask about their prior relationships and discuss values. These things should come as part of getting to know a person. You really did not know your gf if you did not find out her values. You formed an emotional attachment that was doomed because it was based on a myth of perfection. She was not perfect for you and before assigning perfection get to know the person and third your heart.
Be careful who you select. Why not pick a woman of similar religious value as you? You may find her at Sunday service or Boble study. Posted via Mobile Device