Originally Posted by 1-12-t1
would you want to know the aspects of your wife that you wouldnt like? Like one night i got to ask the things i was afraid to hear from my girlfriend. I knew she didnt have good morals and the conversation confirmed it. I ended up leaving her a little bit later. So do you really want to know everything about your wife/girlfriend? or would you rather still be happy and try to make relationship work even tho she may not be as good of a fit as you thought. And im not talkin about xboyfriend stuff but like if she cheated before on other boyfriends, maybe drugs, morals... along those lines.
Id hope you would take the time to know your wife before marriage. Sure, she may keep things from you, but it is possible for someone to have a past and leave it there.