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Old 02-03-2008, 05:25 AM   #5 (permalink)
sarahdale24
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Default Re: How to get over being cheated on? Very long

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Originally Posted by momfirst View Post
you know your story really made me get teary eyed.... I am nobody to tell you what you should do but what I think is that before you start a new relationship you need to heal the wounds left by those guys in your life.

I know its painful but you will get through and one day you'll look back at those experiences and see how strong you've become and feeling that nobody has the right to treat you that way.

good luck

Took the words out of my mouth! Love is always thrown around so casually, and it shouldn't be. ANYONE who cheats on you doesn't love you. no matter what they say.

Healing yourself is key. Explain to your bf now what's went on and such and maybe he can help you heal. Tell him that you don't want to push him away and that you know what you have with him is real, but ask for a little understanding while you get through this difficult time.

*Hugs* and hope you can overcome this and realize that such a beautiful soul as yours deserves only the best!
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