Originally Posted by HurtinginTN

We are close to agreeing on everything. I had said I was filing last week one way or the other. That was the pure hatred talking as she was with him a couple of weekends ago. The reality is that we have a lot to get in order. Taking a little more time to get rid of all of the assets in the best financial way possible would be prudent. On the home, we have 3 properties adjoining our property currently for sale. My understanding is that if I file and it goes through the courts now, we would be forced to sale the house at auction. If I take some time to fix it up some and put it on the market, we would probably come out many thousand dollars better off.

We are working on liquidating everything and paying off some debt. I have a new place pretty much furnished whenever I get ready. One friend with a couch, another with a TV, etc. My biggest obstacle will be getting rid of our house. That may take some time.

I'm getting back to working on things rationally instead of a knee-jerk reaction based on anger, etc.