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Ummm yeah.... Sorry dude, but you don't go to the house of the person you've been texting about having sex with at 10PM and returning at 4AM.....and nothing happened. Dude, she's lying through her teeth.

I don't care if she has an app on her phone that erases texts from the phone bill, if she ever sync'ed her phone up to the computer, you can probably still retrieve those texts. I'm not sure how. Will someone please tell him how to do this? Thanks!

You are in the drivers seat now. The main reason she moved out is because of the fog she's in right now with this affair. She wants to continue the affair without interference from you. She doesn't have to hide it so hard from you now. This can bite her in the butt BIG TIME in the courts. She moved out, therefore, the courts may view you as the primary parent. You're the one taking care of them full time, so they may have you continue to be the custodial parent. She would have to pay you CS.

Find out if this affair is full blown, the blow it out of the water. Expose to her friends and family that you two are seperated because of her affair. Here's the deal. Affairs are like ****roaches. The thrieve in the darkness, but as soon as you turn on the light, they scatter. Same with the affair, once the fantasy is brought out into the light and the reality of how many people they've hurt. It's sometimes enough to break them apart.

Also, if they happened to work together, that's usually a big no, no. Perphaps their HR Department need to be notified,