Originally Posted by golfergirl
That is what I encouraged her to do. She suffers from PCOS so getting pregnant may not be easy. The young man said he'd support her regardless her choice. His mom was a young mom (now 44) and I'm 42 with a 10 month old and 3 year old. They would have support. But I do understand it is her choice, but she made it and found out the same day. I fear she may regret her decision someday. I grieve for me and part of me is angry that she was careless enough to have this happen. She figured she didn't have to worry because of the PCOS. I know it's her, not I that lives with the consequences so I am not pushing. I really just wish I didn't know!
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HUGS to you
I guess I'm reading that she did already do it, so really no amount of trying to get her not to do it will help at this point. I have a 17 year old, so I know this could be me any day writing this too. I tease my daughter and her boyfriend about winding up pregnant when we have 3 year old twins in the house... But in reality, I know what you are going through would be so very difficult, and as much as I would want to support my daughter in whatever decision she made, it would hurt. I hope time will help you through this.