| | Re: i need help a.s.a.p. wifes emotional affair.
And you said that you've exposed her affair to family members and that they didn't seem to care? THAT'S perplexing...
Well, then you need to give her a dose of reality. Make sure the joint accounts are divided. Joint credit cards are canceled. Do not susport her in anyway unless it's dicated by your lawyer to do so. Move forward and go dark on her. She wanted to be out on her own, then that's EXACTLY what you give her. Have your lawyer move to give you temporary Full custody of the kids with the courts. Have the courts dicate what her visitation rights are and get a restraining order out on the OM that he can't be around your children until the divorce is finalized. Ask your lawyer about that.
I think THAT will bother her a little.