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revitalizedhusband · 02-24-2009, 03:37 PM

FO3: My wife has never cheated in any way, but I'm with you man, if she ever did I know myself and it would be basically impossible for me to let it go.

I know myself pretty well and I am NEVER a vindictive person, but in that realm I know I'd end up cheating on her just to hurt her and then leave her.

I'm not a jealous person, but she is and at the beginning of our marriage she was HORRIBLY jealous even though I gave her no reason to be (she's a lot better now), after all that crap she put me through if I found out SHE had cheated I would do something back just to be mean.

So long story short, you have some very normal feelings right now, if you want to keep it together then you just to give it time, 2 months won't do it.

02-24-2009, 03:37 PM	#2 (permalink)
revitalizedhusband Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 700	Re: just cant forget FO3: My wife has never cheated in any way, but I'm with you man, if she ever did I know myself and it would be basically impossible for me to let it go. I know myself pretty well and I am NEVER a vindictive person, but in that realm I know I'd end up cheating on her just to hurt her and then leave her. I'm not a jealous person, but she is and at the beginning of our marriage she was HORRIBLY jealous even though I gave her no reason to be (she's a lot better now), after all that crap she put me through if I found out SHE had cheated I would do something back just to be mean. So long story short, you have some very normal feelings right now, if you want to keep it together then you just to give it time, 2 months won't do it.