Originally Posted by sugarbabe_mn

Thank you again for the support....Let me pose another question to you all......should I be seeking counseling for myself? I mean I feel I am doing a pretty good job getting myself in order and feeling beter about my situation. I guess IM not sure how to procede. I would like to ask him to leave but of course I am scared he will cut us off financially (I am a stay at home mother) I am seeking employment for myself but after not working for 10 years I am finding it very difficult.

He is most definately kissing a little butt these days. My mother and friends think it is because he knows that I have thrown in the towel so to speak. Ughhhh its so hard and frustrating to take that leap off the edge of the cliff and just do it. I figure since he has 2 weeks off work that I need to sit him down and discuss more intensly how I cannot forget what he did. Thanks for the advice in advance ......You are all so great

sugarbabe in Mn