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TGolbus · 02-24-2009, 08:18 PM

There are some good tools out there that help manage through the feelings of finding your spouce cheating. I would recomend these. You need to heal reguardless of your decision to stay or go.
I recomend stay. Just like others have said, good has come out of my situtation. My marriage now is what is was meant to be. It took a lot to recover (from me and my wife).

Duration - a divorce also teaches a kid that vows don't mean much, and running is an acceptable option. I do agree in the situtation of violance (personal safety) - but short of that.....just my opinion.

Good luck.

02-24-2009, 08:18 PM	#9 (permalink)
TGolbus Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Charlotte NC Posts: 116	Re: just cant forget There are some good tools out there that help manage through the feelings of finding your spouce cheating. I would recomend these. You need to heal reguardless of your decision to stay or go. I recomend stay. Just like others have said, good has come out of my situtation. My marriage now is what is was meant to be. It took a lot to recover (from me and my wife). Duration - a divorce also teaches a kid that vows don't mean much, and running is an acceptable option. I do agree in the situtation of violance (personal safety) - but short of that.....just my opinion. Good luck.