| | Re: just cant forget
There are some good tools out there that help manage through the feelings of finding your spouce cheating. I would recomend these. You need to heal reguardless of your decision to stay or go.
I recomend stay. Just like others have said, good has come out of my situtation. My marriage now is what is was meant to be. It took a lot to recover (from me and my wife).
Duration - a divorce also teaches a kid that vows don't mean much, and running is an acceptable option. I do agree in the situtation of violance (personal safety) - but short of that.....just my opinion.