 Re: Coming clean - need help to decide.
jlondon, don't lie to her (your wife) anymore. I don't understand people being married, and just doing this, it boggles the mind, having said that... At least you understand what you've done is not the nicest thing. Tell her and see what happens from there. Also, remember something....
There must have been something that attracted you to your current wife, in the beginning, and even though you think you've found greener grass.... what makes you think that you won't eventually grow bored or apart from your new love either? She will come with her own set of imperfections, and things she does, that you find intolerable, just as you described your wife, so will your girlfriend be described in a few years.... The grass is not always greener my friend. Be certain of what you're letting go, before you start painting the new one as if she's a mona lisa...... Good luck.
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