Originally Posted by AFEH
I got to the point at the end of my marriage where I felt I was abusing my wife. You need to be very careful with all this Acorn. Your marriage may well be doing you a great deal of emotional and psychological damage.
I wish I had the tools the evaluate this more. My friends have told me similar.
I really don't think she is trying to be mean or anything... if anything she is just simply emotionally not there a lot of the time.