Originally Posted by Enchantment
@OP ~ The best way it should have been countered would have been right at the time of mention - c*o*c*k*y smile and "Yah, but you should see what I can DO with it." Then you proceed to show her what you CAN do with it from that point on, so that she does not ever have the urge to say anything about the size, just that "WOW. HE is GOOD."
Since that time is passed, I think you just firmly tell her that commenting on something like your size is totally inappropriate and then give her the c*o*c*k*y smile and "I'll show you what I can do with it, so you don't have to complain about my size again" and then you just try and knock her socks off every time you have sex.
Don't let her get to you. Stand up and respect yourself and act like a proud man. It is NOT the size of the equipment that matters, but what you do with it. So do your best with it and have a proud attitude and you can't go wrong.
First of all the average size of an erect penis is between 5 and 6 inches in length. So unless your erect penis is below that it really is not 'small'. 'Big' penises are statistically 'small' in numbers.
Check out this chart from a survey from Lifestyles condoms at Mr Average
You know what is far more attractive than a penis to most women? Confidence
. You know what the truth is and that should be enough. Your real enemy is not your wife and her friend's stupid and ignorant comment but your insecurities which you erroneously allow to define you worth as a man.