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Originally Posted by marina72  ... Tell her and see what happens from there. Also, remember something....
There must have been something that attracted you to your current wife, in the beginning, and even though you think you've found greener grass...... |
Thank you, I like the metaphor. You make sense. I was young a personable. This might be going off at a tangent, but when we date (long distance), Me in London, she in CA, she had a fling with her ex. She called me crying and confessed. I said don't worry, no problem, thinking nothing would really become of us. But she called me persistently and 11 years later...
Don't think I can tell her until I know which person I want to end up with, I think I'm leaning towards my GF just because she's new and different and has a genuine interest in me. I know this sounds bad, but I need to be taken cared of (not just sexually, but emotionally). I feel I just live in existence, make money, pay mortgage, bills, file taxes etc... always responsibilities.
