Sakaye

I'm sorry to hear that. I've gone through that with my 2 oldest kids. They were younger when I left him. They are 11 & 12 now. Your son may not want to be with you because daddy's house is FUN and daddy is probably a huge bullsh*tter, and mommy makes me fix my bed, or do chores, or do homework, whatever it is, mommy will almost ALWAYS look like the bad person. I cried and cried for years because my kids ALWAYS asked to live with their dad. However, little did they know that every time he bailed for work, he bailed for the OW, who like in ur situation, is a damn nutbag. All I can say is be prepared for the worst. And the worst is not taking the child away. Check your State laws. Your ex will have to prove you severely unfit to get full custody. I say check ur State laws because where I'm from, you CAN be divorced, have joint custody and he still n to pay child support. That's not what happened in my case, but a judge here told me so. Like I was saying earlier, there are worse things than sharing custody, like having the OW make ur kid call her mommy. Its pretty crazy.
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