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Jen · 02-25-2009, 09:15 PM

I posted this in the general discussion thread as well; I'm new, so if that's a major faux pas, I'm sorry. As I was looking around the site more, this seemed like an appropriate place to post this problem. I'd like some mens opinions on this.

I let my husband take naked pictures/videos of me with his cell phone several weeks ago. It's something we've done often, not a big deal at all. However, I found out the night before last that he sent one picture and one video to a "friend" (someone he's never met, he's known him over an internet truck forum for about 2 years). I might not even be so angry if that video hadn't shown my face, but it did.

Is there a valid perspective other than "He's a jerk with no moral character?" I would really love an alternate reality right now; one in which he was just a good guy who made a mistake. Is that possible? My reality sucks.

02-25-2009, 09:15 PM	#1 (permalink)
Jen Registered User Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 9	Men and naked pics I posted this in the general discussion thread as well; I'm new, so if that's a major faux pas, I'm sorry. As I was looking around the site more, this seemed like an appropriate place to post this problem. I'd like some mens opinions on this. I let my husband take naked pictures/videos of me with his cell phone several weeks ago. It's something we've done often, not a big deal at all. However, I found out the night before last that he sent one picture and one video to a "friend" (someone he's never met, he's known him over an internet truck forum for about 2 years). I might not even be so angry if that video hadn't shown my face, but it did. Is there a valid perspective other than "He's a jerk with no moral character?" I would really love an alternate reality right now; one in which he was just a good guy who made a mistake. Is that possible? My reality sucks.