Originally Posted by Jen
I posted this in the general discussion thread as well; I'm new, so if that's a major faux pas, I'm sorry. As I was looking around the site more, this seemed like an appropriate place to post this problem. I'd like some mens opinions on this.
I let my husband take naked pictures/videos of me with his cell phone several weeks ago. It's something we've done often, not a big deal at all. However, I found out the night before last that he sent one picture and one video to a "friend" (someone he's never met, he's known him over an internet truck forum for about 2 years). I might not even be so angry if that video hadn't shown my face, but it did.
Is there a valid perspective other than "He's a jerk with no moral character?" I would really love an alternate reality right now; one in which he was just a good guy who made a mistake. Is that possible? My reality sucks.
What you described happens all the time, which is one of the reasons I've never let a guy have a picture of me that I couldn't bare other people to see.
But this isn't some loser bf showing his mates nudey pix of his girlfriend this is your husband and I really find that shocking. He has betrayed your trust, in a major way.
As for how you deal with it I really don't know.