Originally Posted by okeydokie
any couple that has kids aged in "months" should basically forget about everything else not related to raising the child
Perhaps the worse unrealistic advice written in this thread.
That advise is not about being real, and we had a great sex life and life in general during the pregnancies and after the births, and the best advise we were given was to keeping doing the most of the things we did before the births of our two daughters. Do not modify around the baby....better for the baby to modify around you and your lifestyle. So if we did it to great benefit (to the babies too), then most couples can too!
Perhaps the OP is just plain old tired and overwhelmed by the demands of the new child. Is the husband doing his part? I would think the OP is drained from all the tasks required for a months only child. Perhaps dad should chip in more, and even give mom the weekends off completely. I'd suggest dad give mom a few hundred bucks and ask her to run off to the mall or have a good nosh with some friends, cut loose, etc.