Read the following pos from lordmayhem I think she is cheating...
You wife has to hand write a no contact letter , one that you review before it is sent , this is as much for you as it is for her to give the message that the affair is over.
A sample letter below No Contact Letter
Don't let her dilute the letter
If she declines then you know she is not committed to you or your marriage .
Lastly track the OM down and let his wife or signigicant other know of his adultery or if he has neither let his parents or siblings know, again this is to ensure he does not come sniffing around your wife as he has no consequences .
Sample exposure letter at the end of the page in this link
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