Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Are Sex and Marriage Mutually Exclusive? Are you happy in your sex life?

qigong · 09-19-2011, 09:56 AM

Based on many of the posts in this forum it appears that sex is not only alive and well, but highly desired in many marriages. However, I hear a lot to the contrary, so I wanted some actual data on this. So, if you're interested in participating, I have a short survey:

1) How would you rate your overall sex life (i.e., do you feel your needs are being met)?

5 - Over the top - never been happier!
4 - Above average - feeling very satisfied with quantity/quality of my sex life
3 - My needs are being met - I really can't complain, but now and again would like more passion/excitement
2 - Needs are barely met at best. I want/need more sex/intimacy and it should be more satisfying
1 - We never, almost never have sex. And/or when we do he/she doesn't know how to please me. I couldn't be more dissatisfied.

2) How is the actual quality of your sex most of the time when you do it?

5 - Mind-blowing! I forget where I'm even at after.
4 - Awesome - some of the best sex ever most of the time
3 - Darn good - satisfied with my partner, though there are times I wish it could be more intense
2 - Eh, it's just okay. Enough to keep me going for now.
1 - Horrible! He/she has no idea how to please me.

3) How often do you have sex(on the average)?

5 - Everyday or more! Wow!
4 - About 3-5 times per week
3 - About 1-2 times per week
2 - Once or twice a month, sometimes less
1 - Feels like never to actually never

4) How many years have you been married?

5) What was your sex life before marriage?

5 - Over the top - never been happier!
4 - Above average - feeling very satisfied with quantity/quality of my sex life
3 - My needs are being met - I really can't complain, but now and again would like more passion/excitement
2 - Needs are barely met at best. I want/need more sex/intimacy and it should be more satisfying
1 - We never, almost never have sex. And/or when we do he/she doesn't know how to please me. I couldn't be more dissatisfied.

6) What do you LOVE about your sex life and partner, sexually?

7) What's missing from you sex life? What would you improve about it, about your partner and/or about yourself?

Thanks for you inputs. I'll answer it myself.

09-19-2011, 09:56 AM	#1 (permalink)
qigong Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 64	Are Sex and Marriage Mutually Exclusive? Are you happy in your sex life? Based on many of the posts in this forum it appears that sex is not only alive and well, but highly desired in many marriages. However, I hear a lot to the contrary, so I wanted some actual data on this. So, if you're interested in participating, I have a short survey: 1) How would you rate your overall sex life (i.e., do you feel your needs are being met)? 5 - Over the top - never been happier! 4 - Above average - feeling very satisfied with quantity/quality of my sex life 3 - My needs are being met - I really can't complain, but now and again would like more passion/excitement 2 - Needs are barely met at best. I want/need more sex/intimacy and it should be more satisfying 1 - We never, almost never have sex. And/or when we do he/she doesn't know how to please me. I couldn't be more dissatisfied. 2) How is the actual quality of your sex most of the time when you do it? 5 - Mind-blowing! I forget where I'm even at after. 4 - Awesome - some of the best sex ever most of the time 3 - Darn good - satisfied with my partner, though there are times I wish it could be more intense 2 - Eh, it's just okay. Enough to keep me going for now. 1 - Horrible! He/she has no idea how to please me. 3) How often do you have sex(on the average)? 5 - Everyday or more! Wow! 4 - About 3-5 times per week 3 - About 1-2 times per week 2 - Once or twice a month, sometimes less 1 - Feels like never to actually never 4) How many years have you been married? 5) What was your sex life before marriage? 5 - Over the top - never been happier! 4 - Above average - feeling very satisfied with quantity/quality of my sex life 3 - My needs are being met - I really can't complain, but now and again would like more passion/excitement 2 - Needs are barely met at best. I want/need more sex/intimacy and it should be more satisfying 1 - We never, almost never have sex. And/or when we do he/she doesn't know how to please me. I couldn't be more dissatisfied. 6) What do you LOVE about your sex life and partner, sexually? 7) What's missing from you sex life? What would you improve about it, about your partner and/or about yourself? Thanks for you inputs. I'll answer it myself.