| | Re: how to cope with cheating wife
In my opinion:
The affair isn't over by a long shot. 300 messages a day indicates that she is in this thing pretty deep. I would venture to say that physical contact has been made...regardless of what she says.
Trust nothing that comes out of her mouth, verify everything. If you allow yourself to be drug into her "reality," she will leave you so confused and emotionally distraught you won't know which way is up.
Take a step back and evaluate the situation from a logical stand point. Watch her behavior with a microscopic eye.
The "no contact" letter is a good starting point and will let you know if she's willing to drop the OM, although this is not a guarantee that they won't contact each other...be on your guard.