Originally Posted by heat
I should admitt here onething that as mr guy said ,she tried to open up by means coming and sitting in front and willingness to answer anything I have to ask but at the same time she never answers completely but tries to say that its normal talk as 5 mts conversation takes 10 messages to type .It happened recently about 10 days back. she requests me she is also going through guilty feeling and wants to forget about it ASAP .
,That is the only mistake she did and remorse for the long duration of chatting other thanthat she says never committed in any other way and the OM recently started sending love messages as I am in love with you ect .For this she says she realizzed that its going to far and was trying to cutdown slowly rather than abruptly.In fact her call details shows the same where as outgoing messages has dropped to certain amount by the time I caught.she says that she wants back her normal life and can do anything for that and asking for forgiveness.Its very difficult for me wether to believe her or not.
You do not slow down an affair. It must be handled abruptly with full NC. When a boundary is crossed you stop. You don't proceed slowly.