Re: Masturbating instead of sex?
just talk to him openly about it and try not to do it with anger in your voice. It usually makes men shut down when they feel that you are coming at them with an attitude. Let him know of your doubts and worries and tell him to be honest with you when he feels the need to pleasure himself. Maybe he can let you watch if the touch of his own hand is what he needs sometimes, have yourself involved. Just talk about it in a caring and understanding way. Don't worry about it too much though.
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