mollyL

Oreo, you have every reason to feel the way you do. I think all the advice has been right on; I'd just like to give you another opinion. You say that you guys have sex for several hours; do you mean intercourse for that long? If you do, I had a friend whose husband was the same way. He could go for hours as well; he had trouble for some reason climaxing inside her. He would "take care of her" and then masturbate himself to climax in the bathroom after the intercourse. She found this out about the same way you did. He also was not an initiator, probably due to the same reason. He said that he felt he was failing her, that she would think he didn't love her or think she was sexy. They talked it all out and after that it was fine.( I don't know if there was any porn involved or not.) You didn't mention your hubby's age; as men get older they can start having troubles in their mind about their sexuality and virility.