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mollyL · 02-05-2008, 11:40 AM

We had some big-time money worries at one point in my husband's and my relationship; I was really worried and upset about it and I thought I was hiding it from my hubby. I wasn't, and because I was so unhappy, my hubby thought I was unhappy with him. For a long time he said nothing about it and just let it fester. When it finally came out, I was amazed that that was the way he was thinking. He was almost relieved when I said it wasn't him, it was just the money worries. Maybe you and your wife need an in depth conversation in this area. Hope it helps.

02-05-2008, 11:40 AM	#2 (permalink)
mollyL Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 126	Re: Feeling lost We had some big-time money worries at one point in my husband's and my relationship; I was really worried and upset about it and I thought I was hiding it from my hubby. I wasn't, and because I was so unhappy, my hubby thought I was unhappy with him. For a long time he said nothing about it and just let it fester. When it finally came out, I was amazed that that was the way he was thinking. He was almost relieved when I said it wasn't him, it was just the money worries. Maybe you and your wife need an in depth conversation in this area. Hope it helps.