Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Mother-In-Law Destroyed Me, As A mother, And My Children

sm1965 · 09-21-2011, 02:02 AM

I agree, have to get out of there. But where we have a business, we can't just pack up in a weekend and move. It's an industrial-type business with a lot of machinery and heavy lathes which are all setup (as in special wiring) and to move will take a lot of planning and money to do it properly. This is one of the reasons why we've stayed in the first place... very difficult to move once setup. We were very naive at the beginning and didn't realize we were seen as a meal ticket. We trusted and didn't realize the costs to our lives.

Hindsight is 20/20... we were stupid.

Planning the move now. Even though I feel it's too late.. damage is done.

We were always taught to respect our parents and trust without question as they had our best intentions at heart. It really shakes your soul when you realize that isn't true. You are actually a means to an end and property to be exploited with consequences to you... not them. And to top all that off, you can't blame them... it's a sin to blame your parents for anything. Right? Twisted world!

09-21-2011, 02:02 AM	#13 (permalink)
sm1965 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 9	Re: Mother-In-Law Destroyed Me, As A mother, And My Children I agree, have to get out of there. But where we have a business, we can't just pack up in a weekend and move. It's an industrial-type business with a lot of machinery and heavy lathes which are all setup (as in special wiring) and to move will take a lot of planning and money to do it properly. This is one of the reasons why we've stayed in the first place... very difficult to move once setup. We were very naive at the beginning and didn't realize we were seen as a meal ticket. We trusted and didn't realize the costs to our lives. Hindsight is 20/20... we were stupid. Planning the move now. Even though I feel it's too late.. damage is done. We were always taught to respect our parents and trust without question as they had our best intentions at heart. It really shakes your soul when you realize that isn't true. You are actually a means to an end and property to be exploited with consequences to you... not them. And to top all that off, you can't blame them... it's a sin to blame your parents for anything. Right? Twisted world!