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stav · 02-05-2008, 04:14 PM

You say 'no sex to speak of'

Why is that? Does she not like it? Do you not enjoy it with her? Have you perhaps considered why this might be?

You know it could just be that your relationship is settled into a rut and your ex girl, being forbidden fruit seems all that much more exciting.. perhaps you remember the sex all that time ago as being really good, but it probably wasn't. After all, there was probably good reason why it didn't work out between you the first time? Ask yourself why she is back in your life, and why isn't she settled with someone?

Why not try injecting a little thrill and passion into the love life you already have? Valentines Day is coming, a perfect excuse to plan something special for your partner. Maybe a night away at a nice hotel, a romantic evening just the two of you. Obviously your personal finances will determine how much you can do. Maybe, just prepare a lovely aromatic bubbly bath for her, get a bottle of champagne, put it on ice, light lots of romantic candles. Scrub her back (join her if your bath is big enough!) make love to her.. make it special.. that could be all it takes.

Look at what you have, and consider how you would feel if you lost her. It might just open your eyes.

02-05-2008, 04:14 PM	#3 (permalink)
stav Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: London Posts: 151	Re: I feel awful… You say 'no sex to speak of' Why is that? Does she not like it? Do you not enjoy it with her? Have you perhaps considered why this might be? You know it could just be that your relationship is settled into a rut and your ex girl, being forbidden fruit seems all that much more exciting.. perhaps you remember the sex all that time ago as being really good, but it probably wasn't. After all, there was probably good reason why it didn't work out between you the first time? Ask yourself why she is back in your life, and why isn't she settled with someone? Why not try injecting a little thrill and passion into the love life you already have? Valentines Day is coming, a perfect excuse to plan something special for your partner. Maybe a night away at a nice hotel, a romantic evening just the two of you. Obviously your personal finances will determine how much you can do. Maybe, just prepare a lovely aromatic bubbly bath for her, get a bottle of champagne, put it on ice, light lots of romantic candles. Scrub her back (join her if your bath is big enough!) make love to her.. make it special.. that could be all it takes. Look at what you have, and consider how you would feel if you lost her. It might just open your eyes.