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A Good Husband · 02-05-2008, 04:02 PM

I have to say that I don't think porn is okay. Porn distorts and distracts from what sex should be. It is addictive and has very little benefit.

I speak to a lot of couples where the men have a hard time initiating sex. You'd be surprised at how often this problem stems from pornography. When it doesn't it usually stems from some sort of insecurity that can be solved when couples communicate more openly.

On a personal note, I'd have to say that varying the amount of time that sex lasts is a great way to keep it interesting. It's a little unrealistic to expect it to always last for hours.

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A Good Husband Registered User Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Portland, OR Posts: 28	Re: Masturbating instead of sex? I have to say that I don't think porn is okay. Porn distorts and distracts from what sex should be. It is addictive and has very little benefit. I speak to a lot of couples where the men have a hard time initiating sex. You'd be surprised at how often this problem stems from pornography. When it doesn't it usually stems from some sort of insecurity that can be solved when couples communicate more openly. On a personal note, I'd have to say that varying the amount of time that sex lasts is a great way to keep it interesting. It's a little unrealistic to expect it to always last for hours. __________________ A Good Husband - What does it take to be A Good Husband? Get some ideas here.