Originally Posted by Lon
So you'd put your desire for some tramp/homewrecker who is chasing a married man ahead of the woman you have committed to and spent years building a life together with.
Nice, you know exactly what you should do, but you are considering giving your W the ultimate betrayal and devastating her world for some cheap thrill. Sounds pretty superficial to me, I know which one I would pick if I could have my choice.
It's been two years since d-day for me. My H's married wh*** wanted him "bad" too. What a piece of S*** this woman is, and if your potential piece of a** knows that you are married and is coming on to you she is too. She want's to compete with your wife and humiliate her as much as she wants to rut with you, maybe more, that is exactly why they call it betrayal. Right now you are thinking with your private parts. My feelings for my H will never be the same. Nearly every time I look at him I feel disgust for what he has done to our marriage ( D is not an option for us), and all because he put his lust ahead of my needs. If he had been honest with me our marriage would have become everything that he wanted it to be, now it never will. I was as "bored" with our sex life as he was, he just wasn't a very good lover. I could have helped him in that respect, but I wasn't comfortable with talking to him about it because I didn't want hurt his ego, and I loved him too much to risk hurting him. He didn't really care about hurting me though. If he had told me about her before it was too late we could have worked it out. Both of us would have benefited from his honesty. I could have continued to respect him. Your wife deserves better. I have never had anything hurt me as this has. I lost a child to cancer, and that nearly killed me. I thought that nothing worse could ever happen to me. I was wrong. My child could not help dying, it was not a deliberate choice, betrayal is.