always_hopefull

While I have divorced my H due to several EA's and one admitted PA (ons), with the possibility of more PA's, I have a question. Sadly we are forced through financial situations to be living in the same house, and while it is hard, sometimes it is even harder. I find he is a constant reminder for all the hurt and lies in our marriage. We have on several occasions talked about his ONS, however, he kept changing details, from I was too drunk to stop, to I was so ashamed I ran out after and drove home. When i point out the idiosyncrasies in his story i.e. too drunk to say no, but sober enough to drive home, he gets angry and frustrated. However, regardless of the details, my question is, would a WS "forget" most of the details of a ONS after three years? Or would it be such a profound event that it would be etched in their memory?

I know it really shouldn't matter to me, but I have never felt he has told me the truth, I guess I'm just looking for someone to validate my belief that he was never honest with me. He makes me think I'm the one not thinking straight...