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berlinlife06 · 02-06-2008, 01:19 AM

I guess he still has the big problem of initiating sex, and rather just masturbate than go through the process and maybe having the pressure of having a long session. Once I did something that worked: I asked my girlfriend, who is not always the one to start sex, what is that she wanted, and she had to come and get it.
Also, try some quickies, and see how he reacts. But overall, you have the right to be upset!

02-06-2008, 01:19 AM	#14 (permalink)
berlinlife06 Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 80	Re: Masturbating instead of sex? I guess he still has the big problem of initiating sex, and rather just masturbate than go through the process and maybe having the pressure of having a long session. Once I did something that worked: I asked my girlfriend, who is not always the one to start sex, what is that she wanted, and she had to come and get it. Also, try some quickies, and see how he reacts. But overall, you have the right to be upset!