 Re: Military Spouse..much needed advice.
Wow. Well I guess I foot the blame then. We eloped after knowing each other for 3 months..we had problems before I get pregnant..worked them out..then had not one..but 2 kids together..after having problems on and off.
My issue with just getting up and leaving is, yeah I know im a turd for marrying someone with alcohol problems..but he stopped drinking. And sounds sorry during our phone conversations. He expresses how he knows hes to blame, and has to go to counseling to find out where all his problems are stemming from. Hes asking for a second chance..and said he would get out of the military so we can focus on ourselves and the kids.
I dont know..im torn. And probably seem like a moron
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