| | Re: one of many hurting, lost and angry spouses in the world
Hey Jay glad to hear from you again sorry about the circumstances. Honestly it sounds as if you have been a good husband but from the sounds of it you suffer from your own issues which you have been working on. Sounds as if there was a communication problem on her part and I do not know why then again she could be saying these things to justify anything she might be doing. 4 months is a while but not as long as some people have waited. Sounds like you are trying really hard and I applaud you on that. Im not a advocate of divorce except in cases of infidelity or abuse but do understand that at some point you cannot stay in some emotionally when someone else is detaching. Hopefully someone will come by with some more opinions.