Originally Posted by Shamwow

Any tips on the damsel in distress angle? Wont let her die (obviously), and it's nice to have some communication lines open, but clearly don't wanna be sucked in by pity. Why would she want to pull that if she wants out too? A few comments about her maybe opening up if I had stayed longer yesterday...perhaps she sees this as an opportunity to talk to me for a completely valid reason. If that's the case and it happens more, puts me in a tough spot because I WANT to have that conversation with her, just don't want to initiate it because that takes hand away from me, and undoes a lot of my recent posturing while moving on.

Maybe to give herself more time to get her financial house in order before it's final? I mean, she's the one pushing for the house sale asap, but then again, we've been talking about getting out of that house for years, kinda trapped. And getting out would ease her financial strain, even if it tarnishes her credit.


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