Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - swearing on holy book, a life, lie detector test query

Nikki1023 · 10-02-2011, 07:19 PM

Personally, I dont swear on anything..and I dont believe people when they do. If you know someone, you can tell when they are jerking you around and when they aren't. Go with the gut, and pry..thats my best advice.

Anyways...would it really make you feel better if he swore on them? When people feel backed against the wall..and they dont want to tell you something..I dont think they will.

Remember..a lot of cheaters justify their actions to themselves, so they don't feel bad about doing it.

Its a crappy position to be in..but Id try to go for more concrete evidence, and throw it in his face when he least expects it. That would probably be a better approach than asking him to swear.

Good luck with everything.

10-02-2011, 07:19 PM	#11 (permalink)
Nikki1023 Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 152	Re: swearing on holy book, a life, lie detector test query Personally, I dont swear on anything..and I dont believe people when they do. If you know someone, you can tell when they are jerking you around and when they aren't. Go with the gut, and pry..thats my best advice. Anyways...would it really make you feel better if he swore on them? When people feel backed against the wall..and they dont want to tell you something..I dont think they will. Remember..a lot of cheaters justify their actions to themselves, so they don't feel bad about doing it. Its a crappy position to be in..but Id try to go for more concrete evidence, and throw it in his face when he least expects it. That would probably be a better approach than asking him to swear. Good luck with everything.