Originally Posted by A Bit Much
All the valuable info you need to handle this situation has been given. It's up to you to follow the advice, or ignore it and continue to do what you've been doing.
Either you make a change, or you want to talk about making a change. Which is it?
Oh i definitely want to make a change but an a little unsure if i am going in right direction. So much different advice given. when he did this i did not want to give in to his game and also dont want him to think i am sweating the silent treatment. I think that is what he is looking for. I m trying to respond differently than usual. So if i may ask, please let me know the pros and cons in my aproach. Just looking for feedback so that i can know where i need to do things better.